The word intentional has been on my heart for a while now.
Intentional. Done on purpose, deliberative, intended, purposively, willfully, meant, preconceived, consciously planned.
I feel like so much of my 2014 life was responding reactively. Shoot, it’s her birthday? Thanks Facebook for the reminder – Happy birthday friend! *send*. Wait, I haven’t seen this friend for 8 weeks? How did that happen? I spent too much time doing things on the fly – grabbing groceries on the way home from work, throwing in a quick load of laundry at 9 pm so we had underwear and socks for the morning, sneaking in a call to a friend when it became convenient and not because it was needed. Quiet time happened because this worksheet is due on Thursday or because I had a few hours off and it was easy. The problem is life felt messy and I felt unsatisfied with how many things that were once important to me kept slipping through my fingers.
And so, through prayer and processing, the word intentional has become my word for 2015. I sat down a few weeks ago to journal what this would mean. I want to be intentional about –
- My time with God – making purposeful plans to meet with Him each day regardless of how easy it is or how I feel
- Meal planning
- Spending more time with our family, planned in advanced and deliberative
- Committing to the friendships I have and feeding into them 1-1 and with thoughtful action
- My marriage – being purposeful to do all the things I know I need to do to be a great wife to Josh and grow in our marriage
- My health – staying active and committed to change
- Sending notes of encouragement to others when I know they are struggling – this means being engaged in the needs and lives of those around me
- Keeping my car clean – a clean car really does impact my attitude
- Throwing out old things and replacing things that need to be – again, less clutter and more aware of what will make life flow smoother
- Letting go of what needs to be let go of – this means being prayerful about when it’s time to step back from things/commitments/relationships
- My writings and writing commitments – setting goals and following through with them
- Self care – remembering to take the time to refill me so I can be used more effectively for Him
- Being present in the moments – taking time off of social media, leaving the phone in my purse, tuning into others words and the simple beauty of life
- Not always being intentional. Yes, this is one I struggle with too, I love planning and my lists and truthfully, I don’t do change well. I really want to get better at intentionally being flexible
So January 1, 2015 hit and I was armed with my word. I woke up early, spent time in the Word, journaling and praying and reading. Today was the day I would become a whole new person of intentionality. In fact, before Josh even woke up, I had the list made of all the productive things we were going to do to intentionally get in a good place for the week. Taking down Christmas decorations, meal planning, grocery shopping, card writing, a few organizational projects. What a great day it would be! I AM A PERSON OF INTENTION!
Well, little did I know that other plans would be made. We were soon caught in a text chain where Josh quickly committed to a much more relaxing day with my parents. Wait, huh? BUT WE ARE GOING TO BE INTENTIONAL AND PRODUCTIVE!
I felt so grumpy. My first day of being more intentional was NOT supposed to be learning how to be intentionally flexible. I may have been a crab for an hour as I grieved my day. Thankfully I was still able to get a lot done in the evening but it was a great lesson that things don’t always go the way I have planned. It made me want to change my word.
There is a balance to intentionality and I hope to learn that this year. I long to be more deliberative in my commitments and relationships and obedient in the ways He has called me.
“Life is a collection of a million, billion moments, tiny little moments and choices, like a handful of luminous, glowing pearls. And strung together, built upon one another, lined up through the days and the years, they make a life, a person.” –Shauna Niequist-
Life goes by too fast and I want my moments to have meaning. I want the people that I care about to know that I care about them. I want to build up my relationships instead of just maintaining them. I want to put my best foot forward in having a clearer mind and soul. I don’t want to slip into routine, I want to be intentional.
So there’s my word. James 1 outlines much of what I want to be intentional to develop:
- Be a person of joy. (When troubles of any kind come your way, consider it an opportunity for great joy.)
- Be a person of endurance. (When your faith is tested, your endurance has a chance to grow.)
- Be a person of wisdom and prayer. (If you need wisdom, ask our generous God, and he will give it to you.)
- Be a person of faith. (When you ask him, be sure that your faith is in God alone.)
- Be a person that listens and doesn’t respond in anger. (You must all be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry.)
- Be a person of character, integrity and humility. (Get rid of all the filth and evil in your lives, and humbly accept the word God has planted in your hearts.)
- Be a person of Godly action and character. (Don’t just listen to God’s word. You must do what it says.)
- Be a person who controls her tongue, watching gossip and venting sessions. (Control your tongue.)
Do share, what’s your word of the year? Do you have something you are working on developing or something you are focusing on for 2015? I would love to hear it! Or do you maybe need some ideas? One Word 365 has some great ideas to inspire you! It’s definitely not too late to pick one and run with it!
One thing I LOVE is encouragement – seeing others encourage one another makes my heart pitter patter and brings a smile to God’s face! I wanted to be intentional about encouraging others so today on Instagram I am hosting a giveaway based solely on encouragement! Hop over to my Instagram page (@chels819) to leave an encouraging word for a friend. Each message you send to someone will enter you in a giveaway to win this You are brave mug for yourself and the person you tag has the chance to win a set of scripture cards! (USA shipping only). The giveaway is open until 8pm CST Wednesday 1/14. (Both products are sold online at Holly Joy Holt’s website). Join me in being intentional to encourage someone today!