This past Sunday, we got to celebrate a day that I never thought would arrive … my BABY SHOWER! *Cue all the tears, feels, emotions, and mush* I prayed for this day for so long. Like many of you, I’ve spent time in the bathroom at many baby showers collecting myself and wiping away a few tears, wondering if it would ever be my turn. Years passed and then suddenly, in the blink of an eye, last Sunday it was my turn and it was just as magical and special and miraculous as I ever imagined. It made the wait so worth it – the celebration on this end felt so rich and meaningful.
This first shower of ours was hosted and planned by my sister-in-law Monica, who did an amazing job from start to finish! (And I know she had a special helper in my mother-in-law Lori and my nieces!) I loved that I was able to be surprised with the details and felt so special and loved knowing how excited she was to plan this event. This shower was mainly Josh’s side of the family and family friends. It was so great to celebrate with those who have prayed for us for so long!
Here’s a peek at our invitations! The theme was “Twinkle Twinkle Little Star”.
The morning started off with so many nerves! I didn’t anticipate to wake up with so many butterflies in my stomach. Was this real life? I struggled to anticipate what my emotions would be, as well as manage what I thought others would be expecting my emotions to be. I was nervous to be the center of attention for an event that was waited on for years. Thankfully after some prayers and deep breathing, the butterflies went away and the excitement was full-on!
One of my best friends Julie came by in the morning to curl my hair for me, which was so fun. It loved being able to process through my thoughts with her and seriously, she does the best job with my hair. It felt a little like a school dance moment, as I slipped on my dress, her and her family oohed and ahhed. It was so sweet and I am thankful for her offering to come celebrate with me the morning of!
Here’s a running-out-the-door bathroom selfie of my shower look! The dress is from Pink Blush Maternity and was so incredibly comfortable! The navy and pink colors were of course an ode to baby boy and boy girl. (PS – If you haven’t already shopped Pink Blush or Pink Blush Maternity, what are you waiting for!? They are my favorite online boutique!)
Josh drove me to the shower and got to see all the fun festivities before sneaking off to play pickleball with his brother and dad. We got to walk in to a house full of gorgeous decorations and very eager family ready to celebrate! Here are some of the gorgeous touches!
The shower was over the lunch hour and we ate an amazing spread of soups (tomato basil, beef barley, and duck wild rice) and sandwiches (ham, roast beef, and turkey with delicious condiments and gourmet cheeses). The spread was completed with homemade potato chips and a lovely fruit spread. It was catered by Lake Elmo Inn and SO DELICIOUS! Desserts were yummy cupcakes, turtle bar bites, and coconut macaroons. SWOON.
In the invitations, Monica invited guests to participate in a diaper raffle and we were so blessed to get so many boxes of diaper to start off our unending need! Guest began to arrive and were invited to fill out “I Wish…” cards for babies and also, grab a Bingo card to begin filling it out for the gift opening. Everyone was visiting, laughing, eating and talking about different gifts that could be included on the bingo card. I still couldn’t believe this day was about US!
When we transitioned to the gift opening, Monica and my mother-in-law started with a little game where they asked me questions and saw how my answer compared to Josh’s. Monica asked me all the questions first and then surprised me by popping in a DVD to see how Josh responded. It’s so special to now have these answers on film! Here’s the questions and how we both answered them (edited versions):
- What is Chelsea’s favorite pregnancy food craving?
C: buffalo wild wings (parmesan garlic)
J: buffalo wild wings (parmesan garlic with blue cheese dressing)
- What is one word that would describe Chelsea’s mood while being pregnant?
- Do you think your baby girl will be born with a full head of hair? And your boy?
C: yes / yes
J: yes / yes
- How many diapers do you think the babies will go through in their first year?
- How many hours do newborns sleep each day?
C: 15 hours
J: I think they just sleep and eat, so I will say sleeping 18 hours a day.
- Which baby items have you registered for that you believe will be most helpful?
C: Some sort of rocker/swing, like a Rock’N’Play or a Mama Roo.
J: I’ve heard the Mama Roo is pretty awesome.
- What aspects of motherhood do you think Chelsea is most looking forward to?
J: Just being able to cuddle with the babies.
- What traits of Chelsea do you hope the babies inherit and don’t inherit?
C: My empathy or compassion. Don’t inherit my stubbornness to admit when I am wrong.
J: Her love of other people and caring about other people. I hope they don’t inherit her habit of not putting lids back on any jars or containers.
- What traits of Josh do you hope the babies inherit and don’t inherit?
C: I hope they inherit his sense of humor and positivity. (forgot to reply to the don’t inherit part)
J: I hope they inherit the same work ethic that I inherited from my dad. I hope they don’t inherit my webbed toes.
- Which memory from growing up do you hope to recreate with your babies?
C: Making the little things an adventure, like going to the grocery store or cleaning up toys. My mom always made normal things extra special.
J: Rough housing and playing with my dad. It was so fun to team up on dad and mess around with him.
- What are you most looking forward to about being a dad to a girl?
C: Having daddy/daughter moments.
J: Having daddy daughter times and making sure she knows how loved she is. I want to show her how loved she is and what it looks like for a man to care for her in her life.
- What are you most looking forward to about being a dad to a boy?
C: Having a little buddy to rough house with and hunt with.
J: Instill in him a solid faith and a strong work ethic, and what it means to be a real man. Not in the worlds definition, but what it means to be a man of God. And bow hunting. For both of them. And loving pizza.
- What aspect of being a parent are you most excited about in general?
C: Having the opportunity to raise kiddos to love Jesus.
J: It’s another way to experience love and to be able to love even deeper. It’s a different kind of love and I can’t wait to experience that.
As you can imagine, it was so special to hear Josh’s answers! I can’t wait to see him as a daddy to our human kiddos! (He’s such a great dad already to Cali!)
Next I opened gifts, and was so incredibly blessed with such special goodies! Monica asked guests to bring a book instead of a card, and I loved that we are able to get our kiddos library started off strong! (If you know me well, you know I LOVE books. Top favorite things of all time. So these books are so treasured!). Our babies got such special practical and fun items. A huge thank you to everyone who blessed us so richly!
Before I knew it, we were giving out hugs and saying our goodbyes! The afternoon flew by! Monica handed out lavender chamomile sugar scrubs stars as a parting favor, which is one of my favorite scents ever! It was such a lovely parting gift!
It truly was such a wonderful day from start to finish! Josh came to pick me up and helped pack up the car. I smiled the rest of the night, so gratitude that we were able to celebrate this day, a day of God’s faithfulness! It was a dream come true in more ways than one.
When we got home, I finally remembered that I wanted a non-selfie picture of myself in my dress with my 25+4 baby bump, and of course by then, my hair had fallen, the sun went away, and I looked as tired as I felt, but still …. we had to capture the day and moment!
Now, to my friends who are still waiting, hang in there. It’s h-a-r-d, I understand, but I’m believing that you’ll be the center of the party in the future and praying for that day to come soon for each of you. Keep the faith that your waiting will not be in vain. The wait will make the celebration even richer than you could ever imagine! And God will get so much glory!
Thank you to all who came out to celebrate. Our hearts are SO FULL. Thank you Jesus for the chance to celebrate these little lives!